Note from Editor:This article addresses problems we face as society regarding student loan debt, and how we can possibly fix it.

It is crazy how someone 

is willing to invest in themselves to better themselves, and also society and yet they have to pay so much for it. Yes you are doing for yourself too, but studying means eventually you will work, and that keeps economy going. You studying, and gaining knowledge will keep society going forward. You are also the reason society is getting smarter, and making progress. 

People have to understand we are here together, and so everything we do, even little changes we are doing it for ourselves, but also for society. We all have to understand when someone is doing well, we all are doing well, because this person is part of our society. But sadly our society has developed so that everyone thinks it is just me and me. If I am successful, and have money I don't care about poor as long as I am not poor, but this is so wrong. I guess this started from one person thinking like this, and then everyone followed. This mindset has been in our society for years and it needs to stop.

Your actions don't 

just impact you, it impacts all of us. Coronavirus is perfect example for this. See China or let's say their politics didn't react quickly during the beginning stages of this virus, and it is possible it could have been stopped there. China's regime didn't care if it would spread in other countries, the only thing they cared about is destroying this virus in their country. 

And see because they didn't care, it is all over the world and it impacted more people, and this mistake also impacted them, because see a lot of companies have factories in China, but since they are out of business the factories are closed too, which won't be good for China's economy. See you not carrying for other, and doing whatever you want, will eventually bite you in the ass. I don't want to scare anyone, you should be free to do things without questioning yourself, but when it comes to big decisions you should think about others too.

Students loas debt 

keeps rising, and schools are getting more expensive. People finish schools, and still have loans & debt. Finishing school, and starting to earn should be fun. Financial freedom and able to save money, but no they can't because of their loans and debts is this far? See this will just motivate less and less people to go to school, more people will rather start learning online. If less people are interested in studying, professor will go out of jobs, and everyone working in colleges and universities, also   more people will be learning online, where the information and knowledge is being shared , and can't be verified if it is correct, that means our society might gain false knowledge. All of this can have bad impacts on our society. We don't want that, so how do we fix that?

Well schools should 

be paid by rich people's tax money, can't be more simple than that. Rich people are rich today, because someone in society invested in them, so they should do the same. Besides that having people gain knowledge can also be good for future of their companies too, so they should want that too. But sadly most rich people see that they are doing good and that is fine. What they don't see if less people will go to school, it will get harder to get good workers. Less people will be willing to invest in you, which will impact your companies success. See if you don't invest in them, why would they consume what your company is offering? All of us have to help each other, it is not all about you.

We are all meant to do great things together.

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 So here is the thing some people seems to be okay with killing poor animals, but yet abortion totally not acceptable. How does this make sense?

In their opinion abortion 

is a murder, but wait what is then killing animal, a charity work? Not really, since you are taking away humans life, a breathing humans life. And when it is abortion the child is not breathing by himself, and can only function with help with mother's organs. 

Did you all forget that animals 

are also humans, or you just chose to forget it? And yes there are reasons like for meat or other kind of food that we need to kill animals, and we should for sure reduce this too, but it is longterm thing. I am talking about basically hunting animals for fun as a hobby, and hanging dead animals as decor in the house. How do you think this is better than abortion? Okay if you don't agree with abortion, but the same people also hunt animals for fun. This is not okay, and for sure shouldn't be done for fun. Want to have fun, find another hobby!

See killing animals is actually 

killing human being, where killing an egg that only can live with mothers organs is not really a murder. These animals were born by the will of their mothers, but woman who is getting abortion doesn't want to have this child. It is looking for the best option for unborn egg and the mother. You killing an animal is not looking for the best option.

I think is so unnecessary 

to call out someone for getting abortion, it is her own choice you don’t know why, so don’t judge her, and especially when you are no better. Practice what you preach! Abortion has been legal for many years, because it is safe and it is acceptable, you are not killing anyone. But yet animal hunting has been illegal and still is. Really stop doing this to poor animals, and stop judging people for abortion!

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 Note from Editor:This article talks about ways to learn to love yourself. Our society benefits from people not loving themselves, so it is really important to love yourself. Learning to love yourself has so many benefits.

It is no secret

that our society benefits from us not loving yourself. They make it also easy not to love yourself, from consuming instagram to other false advertisements, and of course that means win for them. But living in this society means it is hard to learn to love yourself. The reason, why it is hard to learn to love yourself in our society is, because they just show you how to change yourself, yet never how to accept who you are, but if you know how to love yourself, that can be easy too. The problem is how to not love yourself is more dominate than how to love yourself, so there are way less information about this topic, therefor it is harder to learn to love yourself, but don't worry I am here to help you out with that. I also want to mention you have way more benefits from loving yourself like for example you won't be looking for validation anymore, you will feel free, you will be able to do things without worrying what others think, you will be more confident, and finally you will attract more positive people into your life. I know I sound like the worst sales man, but got to be convincing, I am against real strong force. At least I am not asking for money, but just for you to consume my content, pretty good deal am I right? Anyways yes you probably sick of my lame jokes so let's start:

Getting over all your traumas:

I think this should be your first step and this one is very important. What I find out works the best to get over any trauma small or big even though I feel every trauma is big can't be seen small or big is following: accepting this happened to you, finding strength to forgive yourself and others for it, and find the lesson that you learned from it, tell yourself that this is why you had to go through this. Sometimes it is hard, but you need to tell yourself that trauma is there to shape you as a person, and teach you something. You are allowed to feel angry about it, but then move on and see just positive from it, because this is how you will get over it.

Forgive yourself for mistakes:

Traumas do shape us as people, but so do our mistakes. Sadly mistakes and traumas can also hold us back, this is why this is also very important. You have to accept that you made mistakes, but also give yourself strength to understand why you did it, by discovering lesson you learned from it. Tell yourself what you learn. and that this is why you made this mistake. Be happy about the mistake don't regret it doesn't matter how horrible it is.

Work on your issues:

If there are any issues you have for example you can't trust people work on that. Don't be hard on yourself accept you have it, but also explain to yourself that there is no need for it. Tell yourself why you have it for example someone wasn't loyal to you tell yourself that was one person, but not everyone is like this. and tell yourself as long as they don't show any red flag let's relax. Working on all the issues you have will be so good for you.

Trust yourself:

Trusting yourself is also important. You should trust others, but if you are feeling you can't trust someone trust yourself with this feeling. Show yourself you trust yourself and in return you will get self love.

Take care of yourself:

Taking care of yourself is also important to love yourself. Taking care of yourself can be skin care, taking good care of your body, staying healthy not overworking, and saying no when you don't feel like doing something. This will give yourself so much boost of energy and love.

Challenge yourself:

If you try new things, it will open you up and make you feel more comfortable. It will also teach you what enjoy or not enjoy.

Give yourself Credit:

If you did a great job make sure you let yourself know, make sure you show that. Don't be shy if someone says you did a great job, make sure you fully accept that.

Make a list of Accomplishments:

Making yourself aware everything you accomplished, will get you to love yourself. Write everything down even if it seems lame or small everything is important. Keep reading it until you feel good about yourself.

Write down all the unique qualities you have:

Knowing who you are, and what unique qualities you have to offer will boost yourself. We forget to be aware of our unique qualities, and that is why we start not to love ourselves. Knowing how unique you are, will give you this push to love yourself.

Accept yourself fully:

Finally accept yourself for who you truly are, not for who someone wants you to be. Always be your true self never pretend to be someone else. Also accept all your flaws and fully embrace them. Everyone has flaws, but learn to love them.

Accepting everything about yourself all your mistakes, experiences and who you are will get you to love yourself. Learning deep meaning about all of it, will make you grow and embrace yourself. It will free you of all the stupid expectations our society has. Embrace your true self, because that is the most beautiful version of yourself.

Also don't be hard on yourself when you have bad days and don't feel your best, let yourself feel this way, but also give yourself a strength to get up and move forward.

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In today's article it is all about empowering women

So many amazing,

beautiful and smart women in this world, but yet we find ways to bring them down instead of empowering them why is that? Simple answer would be our society, they teach us that other women are our competition, and it is far from the truth. We are taught that we can't let them be better than us, so what we do is bring them down! And it is so wrong to do. Society loves to bring us down, so this is the way to do it. They can't handle women sticking to each other that is very powerful. They feel the need to put us into place, and the only way to do it is to bring us down.

You don't see men

putting each other down. Society is fine with men being out of control, and having all the power, so they don't teach men to bring each other down. But if men are not each other's competition that means also women are not each other's competition, and the only reason we think this way is because society got into out head, but it is all good I am here to fix that.

You may ask why other women

are not your competition? Well other human can't be your competition, because we all different, and we all have different unique qualities. Especially woman can't be a competition to another women, because we all know how hard it is to be a woman, we are not being appreciated or being treated well, so we are in this together. One woman's success means success to all of us, it shows the world women can be successful too. So women can't be each other competition we are here to support each other, and fight for what we deserve.

Empowering women is not just about making these women feel good, but also making the bond stronger and making female gender stronger. So here are view ways we all can empower each other:

-Compliment her soul and mind not only body:

We women are seen as object, that are suppose to look good, but they don't see us as someone, who has brain, so if you compliment her about her mind it can really be empowering to her.

-Support her ideas:

Women's ideas are always being shut down, so they don't have the power, therefore support her ideas however crazy it sounds. If she wants to start a business support her, and offer to help her.

-Support women owned businesses:

Like previous one it is also important to support women you don't know, and their businesses. So if you are looking to shop online see if you can find woman owned business for that. Support your sisters

-She doesn't have to justify her actions:

Women are always judged for their action for like no reason. So make sure you tell her when she is justifying her action that there is no need for that. Whatever she did is 100% acceptable unless she was mean to someone.

-Compliment women you don't know:

I always love complimenting women I see in toilette, it is very empowering. If you see a woman wearing something you like or just looking beautiful let her know I am sure it will make her smile.

-Ask your female colleague for advice:

Less women are being asked for advice in workspace, so make sure you ask your female colleague for advice instead of your male colleague. Also make sure you let her know you value her opinion, and knowledge this will very much empower her.

-Thank women in your life for what they do for you:

Is it friend who is always there for you, is it your mother who always cleans and cooks for you or is it your aunt who is hard worker and still makes time to see you thank all of them, and make sure they know you value them and the what they do for you.

-There should be no place for judgement when it comes to sex:

When you talk to your female friends about sex make sure you are listening to them, and whatever they are saying you are not judging. If she wants to sleep with many guys support her, if she has weird fantasies be okay with that and let her know it is normal. Make sure they can openly talk to you about sex, because we women can't really openly talk about sex without being judged. So being open and not judgement is very empowering.

-Never say anything bad about a woman:

Doesn't matter if you don't know her or you do please stop talking bad about any woman. Doesn't matter if she can hear you or not don't do it. If you don't say anything bad about her it will empower her even if she can't hear you, and it will also empower you.

You lose all the power when you bring others down, and when you empower others you gain more power. So what do you want to have more or less power?

These are just view ways you can empower other women, but there are many more ways. I guess main thing is to make other women feel good, and make them feel they have place in this world. Making them feel they have more to offer than just their beauty. We all have something special so let's bring that out, and show the world our real beauty. Let's support and love each other, because this way we will be raising our power too.

Comment down below what you like about another woman, and compliment each other in comments. Let's spread positivity

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Menstrual pads should be given for free and condom should be sold

I read the following tweet:

"CONDOMS should be sold and menstrual pads should be given for free. Sex is a choice and MENSTRUATION isn't. Young girls without money are suffering out here. Should I go deeper?"

This tweet got

me to think and it is partly true. As women or anyone, who gets period you are used to getting period, and then having to buy pads or tampons. But is it right though? I guess they think hygiene, especially when it comes to women is a luxury. If you are poor sorry boo, you have to be dirty and get effections not my problem. I am being funny, but it really feels like that. Making me pay for pad really feels like that.

There are so many

founds and you are telling me you can't find system, where I can get menstrual pads for free. Females are born with period, like of course they don't get it right when they are born, but eventually. We can't escape it or ignore it, because we will get effections if we don't use pads. Usually woman has to change menstrual pads every couple of hours and period lasts around 2 to 5 days, when you calculate this it is a big number. Not everyone can afford it and why should we have to? Period supplies are so expensive, considering that it is something a woman needs. We shouldn't have to pay for something we need to basically survive, because you can really get sick if, not using pads during period trust me.

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Now to the second thing:

It was sad, how condoms should be sold, that sex is a choice. Well yes sex is a choice in a way, but also not. Many of us do need sex, as humans we have desire to sex. Yes sex is definitely something we can hold on, but why should we? And making us pay for condoms, won't make us have less sex, but will make us have more unsafe sex, is that what you want? Making us pay for condoms, will just promote more unsafe sex. Do you really think, if we can't pay for pad, we can pay for condoms?

Making us pay for condoms,

will just result in more unplanned pregnancies or diseases. Unplanned pregnancies is something many have issues with, because it most likely results into abortion. As I said I never have problem with someone having an abortion, but if there is a way to prevent it of course it is better. If you get abortion, it can result in you having regrets, and that can have impact on your mental health, and second what I know abortion can be painful. So why not prevent this from happening, and also when so many of you are against abortion, I guess that would be in your interest too.

I see that both

menstrual pads and condoms are important for your health and both should be give for free. We live in society, where our health is being undervalued, which so wrong. They very much worry about profit, but not so much about people. There is a way, to have both give for free and it should be give for free.

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How do Christian actually feel about homosexuality?

Today I will be discussing how Christian feel about homosexuality.

When someone is covering topics

that I am I strongly feel there needs to be transparency, and especially topic regarding religion. So for the start I would like to share my beliefs with you. I am mostly atheist, but I am from Serbia, where they live by religion called “orthodox”. I am acknowledging and cherishing this religion, but I don’t have the same beliefs that this religion lives by, and that is okay.  My belief is that universe is a thing, but I don’t believe there is only one person responsible for all of us. I also accept everyone, and if your belief is that there is a god I accept that. If you like to read full explanation I can write that too, but for this article let’s keep it short.

As I said I accept everyone

no matter what religion they are, but what I can’t accept is religion that only accept their beliefs. I somewhat knew that religions like Christian were close minded. But I recently I came across an article that made me realise how deeply close minded they are. What I read in this article I couldn’t believe my eyes. So today I will be talking about this article, and why their view in wrong way of thinking.

-In the article they said how god created us for male and female to come together. God created us for husband and wife to come together in physical union

Saying that god created us so male and female can come together, you are saying that people who are attractive to the same sex should’ be here, or something is wrong with them.

This is not okay,

you are making someone else feel shitty about their sexuality. You are making them feel they need to change, when you actually you are the one who needs to change. That is the thing some religions are not educated enough, for example about homosexuality so instead of learning about it, they make you feel shitty about it.

If the reason god created us, is so we come together as male and female don’t you think all of us would be straight then? But no god never wanted this!

God actually believes in diversity, and believes everyone has right to chose their sexuality and everyone needs to accept it. World is not suppose to be full of straight people, we need diversity so we learn to respect and love everyone. Don’t need to understand it, but you sure need to accept it!

-The second thing they mention is that there is no other sexual union than that between husband and wife

So if I only feel attractive towards the same sex I need to stop that, and trick my mind into thinking that I am into opposite sex. So you are going to force poor gay male to have sex with straight or even with lesbian female, and they will both feel shitty about it. Because we as people know when they are not attracted to us,  we can feel it, but hey as long is male and female I don’t care if you enjoy it.

With mindset like

this you are forcing so many to be someone they are not. When someone can’t be their true self they can develop a lot of insecurities, and that develops many mental illnesses. But you don’t really care, as long as you look good am I right? God wanted all of us to be happy, and if that is with the same sex god is happy. God would never say bad things about anyone. You are just saying god said that so it sounds more accurate. They will say anything that suits their beliefs, and then say god said that. If you really love god, you would not discredit him by saying he is against gay people.

-They continued to say that every child has right to a mother and a father

Excuse me do you live in some Wonderland? So many children without one parent let alone with two, and yet they were made by female and male. And so many happy adopted children with two same sex parents. Children and any human being wants parents, who are happy, because happy parents means happy home. I would rather have two same sex parents that are happy, than having two opposite sex parents, who are unhappy.

You are not going to make someone,

who is attracted to same sex feel shitty, for feeling this way. They are allowed to feel this way, and they have full right to have children too. What because I like boys I can’t children, no that is not right. Again making them feel shitty, and this is something god didn’t want. It is possible for same sex couples to have children so obviously god wanted this. Children just need to be in happy and loving home, and it is possible that same sex couples can do this better, than opposite sex couples. Children and also god doesn’t discriminate we accept everyone.

As I said I am open for anyone,

who has different beliefs, but lies and beliefs are two different thing, and you make it seem a lie is a belief. Belief should be regarding you, and people around you, when you hurt people you don’t know, and saying they need to fix something that is part of them is awful. This is not god or belief, this is you not wanting to educate yourself, and it just makes you an awful person. It is sad how close minded they are, and how far from reality they are. I would say believe whatever you want to, but you also need to accept everyone else. You can’t just be okay with what you believe, we are all humans, and we need to accept everyone.

I won’t be sharing this article with you I don’t want to give them attention, but I can screenshot you the article and send you if you like to.

So now that you read all of it comment down below letting me how you feel about it?

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In today’s article I will be talking to you about being body positive and how that is important.

Pressure to look perfect

hasn’t been bigger than now. Everyday we consume instagram, and let’s be honest we see there everything, but real. From people facetunning their photos to getting multiple surgeries done just for instagram. From outside it seems all perfect, and it seems all these people have perfect lives and perfect body, but guess what not everything is real. They might look so much different in real life so you can let go of this pressure. Social media has great opportunities, but it also gave us more insecurities, and it really needs to stop.

Rise of social media resulted

in rise of plastic surgeries. You see your favourite instagram model, and she talks about getting something done, what does this do to you? You want to get this done too, because you look up to her. And this is the problem of course these people shouldn’t really be mentioning it or promoting it, but you should also not do everything they do.

It is like this if she didn’t mention it you probably would never even though of doing it, but because she said it, and you looking at her photos gave you even more motivation it gave you insecurity, and that is it perfect trap. But it is not really your fault or person who promoted this idea to you it is bigger source, it is society. I am going to explain in detail in upcoming article what that really means. But see they are gaining so much from creating insecurities in you.

Nowadays you can get

surgery on anything, and that is why society is able to gain from it so much. Back 100 years ago no one did anything on themselves, because it wasn’t advanced as it is today, and trust me they didn’t have insecurities and they were just fine. The society wasn’t able to gain from them so if they were fine you can be fine too.

It is only

because you think you need it. But you don’t really need it! See even if you have flat ass it is better than having fake big ass. It is better not doing it if the reason you are doing it is to hide your insecurities and show off on social media. I am not 100% against plastic surgeries, but feel most of times I would be. See most people do it, because they are unhappy with their bodies, and it is not really that they are unhappy most of us can live knowing with not like some parts of our bodies, but it is the reasons like showing on social media, or for girlfriend or boyfriend that makes us go through with it.

Let’s say you have uneven nose,

and you are fine having that and accepted it, but I can just imagine how annoy it can be. I would totally get you getting a nose job done for that reason. But let’s say all of your friends have big boobs, but you don’t and you look like ugly ducklin in front of them I would not agree with you getting your boobs done. In this case learn to be okay you are different from your friends, and it is okay. Look it is amazing we can basically fix anything, but use it for the right reasons. Learn that it is better to have something not perfect, but real than something fake, but I guess perfect in a way.

SHOULD A WOMAN HAVE CASUAL AFFAIR/SEX?

And yes sometimes it is fine to get some things done, but make sure you okay with your entire body the way it is. Don’t feed our messed up society. Be brave and be happy the way you are even if it doesn’t seem all perfect. Be happy with your flaws and your good parts too. We are all beautiful no matter what!

Body positive means learning to love your body, and accepting it how it is. It is okay to have bad days, and not feel the best or beautiful, but always remind kind to your body. Join me with body positive movement write down in comments what you admire about your body, and then keep reading that every morning when you wake up

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